Yesterday’s post needs to be read for context. If you haven’t read it, please do so first. The post ended with two questions; this post provides my perspective on them.
What if you don’t appreciate the feedback? In yesterday’s post, I emphasized that a key part of the CEO’s response is communicating that the feedback is appreciated. But what if the feedback isn’t appreciated? If this is the case, the CEO has a much bigger problem on his or her hands. To be blunt, the problem is probably the CEO–the CEO has not learned to value feedback. Less likely but possible is that the CEO has a legimate issue with the board–he or she doesn’t trust the motivation or competency of the board. The board/CEO has ceased to be effective in this case and this broader problem needs attention. I won’t address what to do in any of these situations. I just hope to never find myself in them.
What if you don’t agree with the feedback? This is less of an issue. Reasonable people will disagree. The important part is to genuinely reflect on the feedback. What might the board see differently and why? What added information might help close the gap? Might the board be right–if so, how do you learn more about the issue at hand? My recommendation–start with the assumption the board is right. Use this to guide your thinking. If they are not right, this will unveil itself over time. Instead of defending your position, take a step back. What additional thought, perspective, or analysis might improve everyone’s understanding of the situation? Common ground will likely be found.
This completes the series on Closed Sessions of the Board. I hope this provides perspective in two ways. First, it sheds some light on what happens in the Ivory Tower. Second, it shows that workers at all levels, including the corner office, are people; navigating through the personal relationships, group dynamics, and effective communications are the key to success.